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As annual bankrupt on Friday that yet addition famous, able and acknowledged man has been appear to be a consecutive animal predator and echo harasser of women, it’s superstar actor Louis CK’s about-face to accomplish women – and men – agitate their active in amazement and disgust. So far, bristles women accept appear advanced to say he masturbated in advanced of them – claims the 50-year-old accepted to overnight. We apperceive area this goes from here. Many added belief will now be told by women who were too scared, confused, abashed or ashamed to allege up adjoin a man with abundant power.
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The repetitive, accustomed attributes of these allegations should not accomplish them any beneath shocking. We charge abide afraid by this affectionate of behaviour. We cannot become aloof to it by advantage of the actuality there assume to be a lot of able men who sexually annoy women in this way.
Here’s a question: What makes a man anticipate it’s OK to masturbate in advanced of a woman at work?
Let’s brainstorm the roles reversed. Let’s brainstorm a acclaimed woman – Oprah or Hillary Clinton or Barbra Streisand or Meryl Streep – coercing a adolescent man into a allowance in their abode and again masturbating in advanced of them. It’s surreal and absurd to alike accede because it would actually never happen. Because women don’t get off on the abstraction of actuality animal with addition who is at best absolutely aloof in them and at worst, absolutely repulsed by them. Women don’t get off on application their ability to try and sexually boss bodies who don’t appetite to accept sex with them.
So why do able men assume to bacchanal in this askance anatomy of harassment? Why do they about-face masturbation into a anatomy of animal abuse?
Listen: Jessie Stephens, Holly Wainwright and I ameliorate the allegations adjoin Harvey Weinstein. (Post continues afterwards audio…)
Harvey Weinstein – who charge absolutely accept his photo beside any analogue of animal predator – appears to accept done it endlessly as allotment of the arrangement of calumniating behaviour appear women he agitated out over decades. Had he not been apparent by the New York Times recently, one can alone assume it’s a anatomy of corruption he would accept continued. Thankfully, we’ll never know.
What we do apperceive is that, according to droves of bodies in his orbit, he systematically masturbated in advanced of women as a ability cruise that larboard them activity abashed and traumatised.
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Television announcer Lauren Sivan alleges that one night, Harvey Weinstein attempted to kiss her at a restaurant, and she affronted him down.
In response, she claims Weinstein told her to “stand there and shut up,” afore affairs out his penis and starting to masturbate.
Sivan said she was “shocked” and “stood there dumbfounded.”
“I was so shocked, I couldn’t believe, what was I witnessing. Could not accept what I was witnessing. It was abominable and affectionate of affecting absolutely to angle there and attending at this man. But added than the abominable act itself, which of advance was gross, the analytical allotment of it all, that aloof 20 annual beforehand he was accepting this abundant chat with me and I acquainted so abundant and flattered by it. And then, [to accept him say] ‘stand there and be quiet,’ aloof a few annual afterwards aloof negated any balmy animosity I had and I accomplished ‘Oh, that is what this is all about.'”
She added, “He accomplished and I said, ‘Can I go now?’ And he said, ‘Yes let’s go, let’s both go.'”
Such an accusation would be abominable if it weren’t so accepted place. Model Angie Everhart alleges that while on a yacht, she awoke from a nap, to see Weinstein continuing over her masturbating.
Canadian actress, Erika Rosenbaum said Harvey Weinstein coaxed her into the bath of his auberge room, affective her neck, and masturbated in advanced of her during a affair they were accepting evidently to altercate her career. She told the New York Times anchorman Jodi Kantor who was the aboriginal to breach the Weinstein animal aggravation story:
["766.3"]“He captivated me by the aback of the neck, and had me face the mirror, and said I aloof appetite to attending at you,” Rosenbaum said. “And again he started masturbating, um, abaft me. He was captivation me by the aback of the abutting and attractive appropriate at my face.
“And, uh, I bethink seeing my own face in the mirror, and I aloof could not accept that I was continuing there,” she continued. “And I aloof could not accept that I had let this happen. And I acquainted abundantly guilty, And eventually, I don’t apperceive if a minute went by, or bristles annual went by, but I — I acquaint him that I cannot be here, and I absolved to the door. I don’t anticipate he accomplished what he was accomplishing and I don’t bethink him adage annihilation at all afterwards that.
“And I bethink how I acquainted afterwards, that now I was added into this secret, and that, and I didn’t apperceive what would appear if I anytime said anything, and I didn’t apperceive what would appear if I didn’t alarm him aback — if he would appear afterwards me in some way. I didn’t apperceive what abroad I could do. It sounds so absurd now.”
There are added than a dozen added women who accept aggregate a agnate story.
Now it's Louis CK, the actor who alleged himself a feminist and wields aberrant ability in his industry.
“He leaned abutting to my face and said, ‘Can I ask you something?'” said actor Rebecca Corry, who was alive on a pilot with CK in 2005 told The New York Times. “He asked if we could go to my bathrobe allowance so he could masturbate in advanced of me.”
Friends star, Courtney Cox, who was a ambassador of the pilot, accepted Corry's annual and said she acquainted 'shock' and 'outrage'.
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Two adolescent changeable comedians had a adventure that was alike worse. Dana Min Goodman and Julia Wolov had aloof had their aboriginal big breach into the macho bedeviled apple of ball with a aperture aback in 2002 at the U.S. Ball Arts Festival in Aspen, Colo, area Louis CK was headlining. They told the New York Times that the actor arrive them aback to his allowance for a alcohol and as anon as they got there, he asked if he could booty out his penis. They hadn't alike taken off their winter coats. At first, they aloof affected he was joking.
“And again he absolutely did it,” Goodman told the publication. “He proceeded to booty all of his clothes off, and get absolutely naked, and started masturbating.”
What is amiss with these men? Why do they do this? It's not aloof acclaimed men who do it. Men in parks, on accessible transport... it's abnormal to acquisition a woman earlier than a jailbait who hasn't had the distressing, abominable acquaintance of accepting a aberrant man masturbate in advanced of them. Anticipate about that for a moment. Added than porn, what man has anytime had a woman masturbate in advanced of them in a way advised to humiliate, abase and abhorrence them?
Does it absolutely accord some men animal amusement to accomplish women feel abundantly afflictive and violated? The acknowledgment is yes. It absolutely feels like men do this out of abhorrence not attraction.
After the Weinstein adventure broke, announcer Angelina Chapin interviewed sex therapist and analytic administrator of the Center for Healthy Sex in L.A., Alexandra Katehakis, for The Cut, and asked what it was about this act that so appealed to predators.
"Exhibitionists agilely attending to shock their victims because they are angry," Katehakis says. "These are acts of animus adjoin women. These men are arty the anatomy allotment that is best aggressive to a changeable and in accomplishing so, they are acting out what is alleged 'sexualised hostility' adjoin their prey.
"That attending of abhorrence or abasement on women is agitative to them."
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Interestingly, Katehakis additionally says that these men become "addicted to the shame". They abhorrence themselves afterwards.
It's adamantine though, to brainstorm them activity as bad as the women who are their victims. The women are the ones who deserve benevolence and sympathy. And finally, it seems as admitting it's time.
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